Most difficult

I think the difficult most sentences to say, read, write to someone are

I love you

I am sorry

Thank You

Whenever we say these we want to feel the meaning of the words and also want them to be understood with the same feelings and thoughts. It is difficult to say any of these when you mean them to the fullest. It is not a joke or just a passing remark but you mean it with emotions and cognitions attached. 

The reason behind these phrases being the difficult most are various but the two vital ones that I can think of are 1)They are related to the decisions we make and 2)Fear of the words being misunderstood at such an important time. 

We interact with people and live with them. When we make a decision, they may or may not approve of it. They may even hate the decision we made. So, when we have to say sorry to our closed ones meaning it, it becomes difficult. The whole body shows all the sign of we being sorry but the words just stop in the throat and seem to not coming out ever. Either we make it in time or we just live on with never being able to say “I am sorry”. But when we say it, we are relieved. It seems like the burden on our shoulders has decreased. 

There are other times when we do not say a word about apologizing and yet we are understood. It is something we experience very rarely but when we do we know that we would not like to lose that person ever in our life. but, saying “I am sorry” to such a person is most important. We need to be aware that such a person is never taken for granted.

It might seem easy to say “thank you,” but it is lot harder to say it by meaning it. It is not those simple words that we want to convey. Those two words convey a deep feeling of gratitude. We are grateful for so many different things in life that we start taking them for granted. Then, we start complaining about how unfortunate we are. The complaining grows louder and louder suppressing the voice of deep gratitude that we have deep within. This just clouds the sky of our mind.

All this leads to our words not carrying our meaning in an appropriate manner. Then, people start misunderstanding the word “thank you.” This leads to frustration for both the parties, the one saying “thank you” and the one accepting it. Sometimes, it is too late when we realize and fix this. However, if we do and when we do, we start expressing the word and conveying it, too.

Now, let’s come to the three words that are the most cherished. Hundreds of films, novels, short stories, and probably real circumstances keep on emphasizing the fact that these words need to be expressed, of course, if one is serious about the emotion felt. We are expected to feel this pure emotion toward everything that exists in this world. I believe these are one of those words that need not be expressed so often. However, feeling them is mandatory. Otherwise, we are not alive. 

A pure heart holds boundless love for anybody and everybody. Inculcating this is difficult. We are bound to fail. The worst failure is expectation. We start expecting love and acceptance without giving it ourselves. Expectation leads to disappointment more often than not. The moment we stop expecting love from outside, we find our heart overflowing with love and tenderness toward everything. We feel content. It is this feeling of calming unconditional love that grants us peace.

So, all in all, all these emotions are important to feel inside first and then express. All our relationships are strongly based on these emotions. Hence, it is necessary that we cherish them. Not feeling these emotions and not expressing them at the right time leaves us with regret. 

So, don’t create those moments of regret for yourself. Laugh, cry, and emote all these emotions truthfully—without any wax.